The guy might be looking for a fling. He might have someone else with whom he is flirting. For him, you are just another option. It may seem strange to you, but it is possible.
Maybe he is someone who switches his mobile off for hours or ignores the beeps. For him, texting is not high up on his list of priorities, and he prefers calling you or talking to you in person. He has something going on in his life that is holding him back from prioritizing the relationship. Things could have seemed right on your first few dates, but if he suddenly stops texting, perhaps he has personal issues that are preventing him from committing.
This is the biggest worry any girl can have. The best thing you can do here is to let go and move on. One top option is to make a call to be certain and resolve the mystery. Maybe he lost his mobile phone or lost his saved phone number list. Send him a casual text. Pull yourself together and give him some space.
Play the waiting game and be patient. If you are quiet, he will realize he misses your presence in his life, and you might just make him jealous enough to wonder what or who you are occupied with. So it may make sense to pick up the phone and give him a call. It could make things easier for him. Try not to put constraints on his life and demand his attention. All this time, you have been obsessing about him and your relationship with him. It is now time to focus on yourself.
Get on with your life, take up hobbies, and enjoy some time with your friends who you may not have met for a long time. I found this article yesterday after a few rough months and it feels like it has been written specifically about me. I see myself in so many of these situations and reading it really helps putting things into perspective and calm down.
I have actually saved the link and read it again first thing this morning as some sort of bible. Thank you! When Im texting him S. I simply believe he dont care. If he with me he rush to whoever is on the other end of the phone.
Im done because I dont know what to do to have a friend who care about me. I guess I dont have what it takes or what they want.
Thank you so, so much.. This shed a light on my own behaviour and I feel more at peace and in control. Helped me mature a bit. Good tips but it would simpler to identify each party as either a feeler or a thinker. Thank you for the article- I agree with you percent. I get the whole needy thing and women need to have their own lives. My first ever gf forced me to get a phone and taught me how to text and that was back with T9.
One time my dad had just gotten a new phone and we were on our way to work and my step mom had called like 5 times since we just left the house. He rolled down the window and just chucked the phone out the window. I died laughing…. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign up for our free newsletter and get a free chapter of our book,"He's Not That Complicated".
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How To Know For Sure Leave Your Comment Now Kylinebrn I was talking to a guys i met on a dating cite before i fall inlove with him a lot and hes definitely he always left me hanging, texting him and he always left me on seen and it really sucks like ik we both like each other but he obviously show that he lost interest in me it really hurts when u expecr too much just because he show you his time for a while and u suddenly started to overthink like you were in relationship even were just friends:.
C I found this article yesterday after a few rough months and it feels like it has been written specifically about me. Belle Pepper When Im texting him S. Andy Thank you so, so much.. A Good tips but it would simpler to identify each party as either a feeler or a thinker. Jas This article was so helpful..
I think every woman could benefit from reading this! Kelly Thank you for the article- I agree with you percent. O Thank u. Thank u. If your partner does not spend much time on his phone, he may not have seen your text in the first place. Some partners can overwhelm their men with the number of texts they send. Him not texting you back could be a sign that he needs some space. You can take this opportunity to spend some time with your family and friends, as well. In serious conversations, the way you word things holds a lot of weight, especially if it is over text where there is a lot of room for misinterpretation.
He probably did the same thing too. Give it some time, then send him another message. Do not, however, bombard his phone with messages. This will only make you seem clingy. Some men are not big texters.
If you both just started dating, he may not be replying to your texts to play hard to get. He wants to see how interested you are in pursuing him. He may also just be trying not to seem too eager or needy. If you both just had an argument, he could be taking time to answer because he is hurt or angry. This can be a good thing. It gives both of you time to cool down and think over the situation before responding. Just give him the time and space he needs.
That is probably why he is not answering your texts, as well. Sure, he could have taken a more mature approach and told you that he is not on the same page as you.
If a man is interested in you, he will make sure you know it. Maybe you both are reeling from a big fight. Or, you both are probably trying to decide if you want to go exclusive. Some people tend to ask way too many questions early on in the relationship. Or, maybe a situation arose where you piled on the questions.
This may overwhelm him, causing him to go back into his shell.
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